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Computers are addictive...they do cause problems when your mate is addicted to it..... It would be a shame to get all worried about something, when you don't know whats going on yet. I have made a few friends here and check out the forums.
I'll likely just delete this profile in another month or so if things keep going they way they are going.
:)If I were you, I would quit the survellience of her online habits and just flat out ask her: "Does our exclusivity mean we no longer visit online dating sites? If her "Windows Shopping" bothers you, then speak up.
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Things are going well and I want to be her boyfriend, but I still notice her logging into the dating site where we met.
I have a pretty good idea that she is not meeting with anyone else, and am not concerned about that. My last relationship failed because my (then) boyfriend was on the computer all the time...playing around in sites and I finally called him on it. I would confront her about it and have a good discoussion with her as to why she keeps surfing dating sites while you are in a relationship with her. I am not prepared to raise any woman's hopes, and yet "play around" with any others. In any case, have an open, honest and constructive conversation with her. Sorry but you being here is just as bad as her being here. BTW, everything else is going along better than I would expect at this stage, so I am confused. Ah, Whirlish, not a good sign, this checking back until you saw she was offline. I understand you are cautious because of your previous experience, but possessiveness and lack of trust are wonderful relationship-killers. OP: Sweetie, maybe she, like you, is worried about putting all her eggs in one basket this early in a relationship, so she's keeping her options open.
On the other hand, why is she on those sites, and especially for longer periods of time? Addiction to the computer can cause pain in relationships..... Maybe you need to give it some serious thought and ask her if this is what she really wants rather than her trying to sneak behind your back and not be honest about this issue. That is OK, if all you want is casual relationships (been there, done it, the sex can be exciting etc, etc), but that is not what I am now looking for. I read my post 5 times to see whare I got in your face and I am still looking for it. This issue comes up so often in the forums--the feeling of not being able to trust someone they met through online dating, because s/he may still be cruising the profiles. Please don't blow this developing relationship with misplaced mistrust. In the time I've been on here I've dated 3 different ladies for a period of time each. I also enjoy the forums, it's a great place to get some very negitive advice. Maybe she talks to friends on those sites, or maybe she knows you're still here and that makes her have the same doubts you have.
I met a wonderful woman here on POF, and things seem to be going well.
We have had a number of dates, met some of each others family, seemed to have a lot in common, and generally things are developing well.